Date nights are the perfect opportunity to reconnect with your spouse and keep the spark alive in your marriage.
But sometimes, it’s easy to fall into routine conversations about work, kids, or household chores.
To make your date nights more exciting, why not try asking fun and thought-provoking questions?
These questions are designed to help you laugh, bond, and learn more about each other, even after years of being together!
Here’s a list of 100 fun questions for married couples to ask each other during your next date night.
Icebreaker Questions
These light-hearted questions will get the conversation flowing:
- What was your favorite memory from when we were dating?
- If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would it be?
- What’s your go-to comfort food?
- If you could have dinner with any celebrity, who would it be?
- What’s the weirdest food you’ve ever tried?
- What was your favorite cartoon as a kid?
- If you could live in any decade, which one would it be and why?
- What’s one hobby you’ve always wanted to try?
- If you had a theme song, what would it be?
- What’s your most embarrassing moment?
Nostalgic Questions
Reminisce about the past with these:
11. What’s the first thing you noticed about me?
12. What’s your favorite memory of our wedding day?
13. Where was our best vacation together?
14. What’s the funniest date we’ve ever been on?
15. Which moment in our relationship felt like a movie?
16. What was your favorite date we’ve ever had?
17. What’s a habit I’ve picked up that you admire?
18. When did you know you wanted to marry me?
19. What’s a small detail about me that you still find adorable?
20. If we could relive one moment together, what would it be?
Fun and Quirky Questions
Let your silly side shine with these fun questions:
21. If you were an animal, what would you be?
22. What’s your guilty pleasure TV show or movie?
23. Who’s the better driver between us?
24. If you could switch lives with anyone for a day, who would it be?
25. What’s the weirdest dream you’ve ever had?
26. If you had to eat one food for the rest of your life, what would it be?
27. What’s your favorite dance move?
28. Which fictional couple are we most like?
29. If you had a superpower, what would it be?
30. What’s the most ridiculous thing you’ve ever done for love?
Thoughtful and Deep Questions
Dig a little deeper into your feelings and dreams:
31. What’s one thing you love most about our marriage?
32. How have I helped you grow as a person?
33. What’s one thing you’re really proud of?
34. What’s your biggest goal for us as a couple?
35. How do you think we’ve changed since getting married?
36. What’s a dream you haven’t shared with me yet?
37. What does “home” mean to you?
38. What’s one thing you’re most grateful for today?
39. How can we support each other better?
40. What’s your definition of happiness?
Fun “What If” Questions
Get creative with these hypothetical scenarios:
41. If we won the lottery, what’s the first thing you’d buy?
42. If we were stranded on a desert island, what three things would you bring?
43. If you could switch jobs with anyone, who would it be?
44. If you had to pick a new name for yourself, what would it be?
45. If we could live in any fictional world, which one would you choose?
46. What would you do if you could time travel for a day?
47. If we had to move to another country, where would you pick?
48. If you were famous, what would you be known for?
49. If we had unlimited free time, what would you want to do together?
50. What would you do if you had a whole day to yourself?
Romantic Questions
Reignite the romance with these sweet questions:
51. What’s your favorite thing about me?
52. What’s a moment when you felt especially loved by me?
53. How can I show my love for you more?
54. What’s your favorite way to spend time together?
55. What’s the most romantic thing we’ve done?
56. What’s your love language?
57. How do I make you feel special?
58. What’s a dream date you’d love to go on?
59. What’s one way we can make more time for each other?
60. What does love mean to you?
Funny Relationship Questions
Have a good laugh together with these:
61. What’s my funniest habit?
62. Who’s more likely to forget an important date?
63. What’s the weirdest argument we’ve ever had?
64. Who’s the better cook between us?
65. What’s the craziest thing we’ve done as a couple?
66. If we were a sitcom, what would our show be called?
67. What’s the funniest nickname you’ve ever given me?
68. What’s a silly tradition we have?
69. What’s the worst advice you’ve ever gotten about marriage?
70. Who’s more likely to cry during a movie?
Family and Future Questions
Dream big and share your thoughts about the future:
71. What’s a family tradition you’d like to start?
72. What do you think our lives will look like in 10 years?
73. How many pets would you want if we could have any?
74. What’s a skill you’d love to learn together?
75. What’s one place you’d love to take our future family?
76. What’s your idea of the perfect family day?
77. What’s one value you’d like to pass on to future generations?
78. How do you imagine us spending our retirement?
79. What’s your dream family vacation?
80. What’s something you want to teach me or learn from me?
Just for Fun Rapid-Fire Questions
Quick answers only!
81. Coffee or tea?
82. Beach or mountains?
83. Night owl or early bird?
84. Sweet or savory?
85. Summer or winter?
86. Books or movies?
87. Dancing or singing?
88. Pizza or burgers?
89. Road trip or plane ride?
90. Comedy or drama?
Personal Favorites Questions
End on a positive note by sharing your favorites:
91. What’s your favorite song right now?
92. Who’s your favorite author or artist?
93. What’s your favorite thing to do on the weekend?
94. What’s your favorite holiday?
95. What’s your favorite childhood memory?
96. What’s your favorite restaurant or meal?
97. What’s your favorite way to relax?
98. What’s your favorite compliment I’ve given you?
99. What’s your favorite thing about being married?
100. What’s your favorite way to spend time with me?
Final Thoughts
Date nights don’t have to be extravagant to be meaningful.
With these 100 questions, you’ll never run out of things to talk about, and you might even learn something new about each other.
So grab a cozy spot, order your favorite meal, and let the conversations flow!
Which question will you ask first?