“Would You Rather” questions can be used to break the ice, start a fun chat, or even make your game night a little more romantic.
With this list of flirty questions, you and your partner can have fun while getting to know each other better, making date night more exciting, or just having some lighthearted fun.
These 101 flirty “Would You Rather” questions range from cute to sexy. They will make you laugh, smile, and maybe even learn something new about each other!
What are Would You Rather Questions?
The party game “Would You Rather” lets you pick between two choices. The sexy twist? You should find these questions funny and maybe even a little sweet. The best part is that they’re all about having fun and getting to know each other better.
How to Play
Choose a setting: Cozy up on a couch, play over text, or make it part of your date night.
Take turns: One person asks a question, and the other answers. Feel free to explain your choice for extra fun!
Keep it light: The goal is to enjoy yourselves, so don’t take it too seriously.
101 Flirty Would You Rather Questions
Sweet and Romantic Flirty Questions
Would you rather go on a sunset lunch or a starlit beach walk?
Would you rather hold hands during a movie or cuddle on the couch?
Would you rather receive love notes or surprise kisses?
Would you rather spend the day exploring a new place together or lounging by the pool?
Would you rather kiss in the rain or under the stars?
Would you rather slow dance with no music or dance to a favorite song?
Would you rather have a lovely dinner or breakfast in bed?
Would you rather be serenaded or surprise someone with your own singing?
Would you rather share an ice cream cone or a drink with two straws?
Would you rather spend Valentine’s Day in Paris or a cozy cabin?
Cheeky and Playful Flirty Questions
Would you rather steal a kiss on the cheek or surprise me with one on the lips?
Would you rather play footsie or quietly hold hands under the table?
Would you rather have a flirty staring match or a tickle fight?
Would you rather share a heated kiss in an elevator or on a Ferris wheel?
Would you rather have me say sweet nothings or something steamy?
Would you rather get caught looking at me or catch me staring at you?
Would you rather wear matched pajamas or share one oversized hoodie?
Would you rather win me over with your dance moves or your cooking skills?
Would you rather have a flirty fight or a playful wrestling match?
Would you rather give a piggyback ride or get one from me?
Bold and Steamy Flirty Questions
Would you rather kiss for 10 seconds or hug for 5 minutes?
Would you rather whisper your best secret or hear mine?
Would you rather have a midnight adventure or stay up talking all night?
Would you rather kiss me in public or keep it private?
Would you rather flirt over text or face-to-face?
Would you rather wear my shirt or have me wear yours?
Would you rather be the one to make the first move or let me take the lead?
Would you rather be stuck on a deserted island with me or locked in a cozy cabin?
Would you rather have a movie-like first kiss or a random surprise kiss?
Would you rather let me plan the perfect date or surprise me with one?
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Funny Flirty Questions
Would you rather accidentally text me a flirty message or receive one by mistake?
Would you rather go on a date where everything goes wrong but we laugh about it, or a beautiful but boring date?
Would you rather flirt using cheesy pickup lines or loving poetry?
Would you rather see me trip and fall or catch me making a goofy face?
Would you rather prank me with a flirty joke or get pranked by me?
Would you rather get caught singing in the shower or dancing in the mirror?
Would you rather have me as your singing partner or your charades teammate?
Would you rather laugh so hard you cry or cry so hard you laugh?
Would you rather get caught chatting by your friends or your family?
Would you rather have a date where we only eat dessert or where we try weird new foods?
Deep and Thoughtful Flirty Questions
Would you rather have a passionate relationship that’s short-lived or a sweet one that lasts forever?
Would you rather know how I feel about you or let me guess your feelings?
Would you rather have a strong emotional bond or sizzling chemistry?
Would you rather spend a day reliving your favorite memory with me or making a new one?
Would you rather talk all night or just enjoy the silence together?
Would you rather learn my biggest fear or my best dream?
Would you rather share a secret with me or have me share mine?
Would you rather write a love story together or live one?
Would you rather meet each other in a dream or in another lifetime?
Would you rather never stop laughing with me or never stop kissing me?
Quirky and Unique Flirty Questions
Would you rather text me a flirty emoji or get one from me?
Would you rather find out my secret pleasure or share yours with me?
Would you rather dance with me in a crowded place or where no one’s watching?
Would you rather guess my favorite song or hear me sing it to you?
Would you rather share a secret handshake or a surprise kiss?
Would you rather fight against me in a game or team up to win?
Would you rather have a surprise trip or plan every detail together?
Would you rather be the big spoon or the little spoon?
Would you rather chat in a foreign language or learn it to impress me
Would you rather teach me something or have me teach you?
Sweet and Romantic Flirty Questions
Would you rather surprise me with flowers or chocolate?
Would you rather spend a day at a fun park together or at a spa?
Would you rather share a nice blanket or your favorite book with me?
Would you rather take a cooking class together or dancing lessons?
Would you rather have a lovely dinner by the beach or under a canopy of trees?
Would you rather plan a special date for me or have me plan one for you?
Would you rather have our first kiss be slow and sweet or wild and spontaneous?
Would you rather binge-watch a rom-com series with me or act one out in real life?
Would you rather go camping or wake up early to watch the sunrise with me?
Would you rather write me a love note or receive one from me?
Cheeky and Playful Flirty Questions
Would you rather tease me in a friendly way or be teased by me?
Would you rather play a game of truth or dare or 20 questions with me?
Would you rather kiss me on the forehead or on the nose?
Would you rather steal my treat or let me steal yours?
Would you rather take silly selfies with me or pose for a romantic picture shoot?
Would you rather challenge me to a pillow fight or a flirty looking contest?
Would you rather get caught in the rain with me or have a snowball fight?
Would you rather get lost together in a new city or discover a hidden trail?
Would you rather receive a flirty praise from me or give one to me?
Would you rather say something sweet in my ear or hear me do the same?
Bold and Steamy Flirty Questions
Would you rather kiss me on the cheek first or let me kiss you?
Would you rather pull me closer for a dance or a kiss?
Would you rather share a long hug or a slow kiss?
Would you rather have an unplanned romantic getaway or a well-planned one?
Would you rather flirt with me quietly or make it obvious?
Would you rather spend a lazy day cuddling or an exciting day outdoors?
Would you rather feel my heartbeat while hugging or hear it while lying together?
Would you rather kiss me in a noisy room or where only the stars can see?
Would you rather get caught up in a moment or plan everything perfectly?
Would you rather sneak a kiss during a show or right before it starts?
Funny and Quirky Flirty Questions
Would you rather see me dressed up in fancy clothes or cozy pajamas?
Would you rather flirt over pizza or ice cream?
Would you rather share a tandem bike ride or a romantic boat trip?
Would you rather entertain me or hear me sing to you?
Would you rather see my funny side or my serious side first?
Would you rather make a funny inside joke with me or a romantic tradition?
Would you rather be trapped on a roller coaster with me or in a horror movie?
Would you rather play a game of charades or Pictionary together?
Would you rather do something completely out of your comfort zone with me or stick to what you know?
Would you rather share a secret handshake or a secret spot only we know about?
Would you rather end this game with a kiss or keep the questions going?
Conclusion
Flirty “Would You Rather” questions are a great way to bring a spark of excitement to any talk.
Whether you’re looking to laugh, connect, or build a little romance, these questions can help you take your relationship, or your flirtation, to the next level.
So, which of these questions will you try first? Let us know in the comments!